That is the goal right?  It might not be goal for date number one or even date number ten for that matter, but at some point you will want to get her into bed.  Unfortunately, there is no quick and easy trick that will work on every woman in every situation; rather there are some simple guidelines that you can follow that will help you in your quest.  Even just broaching the subject can be a mind blowing endeavor but with a mix of careful words and actions she can be in your bed in no time.

Seduction is an art much like painting or sculpting.  In most cases, you only get one shot so it’s very important not to blow it.  One bad experience is enough for a woman to permanently lose your number, but with a little bit of preparation and a little bit of confidence you will be on your way to putting her under your spell.

In bloom.

Get things started right away with a small gift.  No need to go crazy with a monster bouquet of flowers.  Instead, just single red rose will get her warmed up.  Really want to go all out?  Include a card that you have written with some sort of ‘sweet nothing’ that will get her motor running immediately. 

Bottoms up.

All women love a tasty drink, and the right drink can not only act as an aphrodisiac but will help loosen her up a bit in the process.  Please keep in mind that this doesn’t mean to feed her drinks until she is completely drunk.  A nice glass of wine or even a flute of dry champagne is a great way to set the mood at the beginning of the night.

Yuck it up.

While the two of you are sipping drinks, begin to explore her…. mind.  Before a woman is going to jump into your bed, she is going to want to know a little bit about you and in the process will tell you plenty about herself.  Building a little bit of comfort and trust through engaging conversation is extremely important.  The key here is to avoid silence and awkward conversation.  Stay away from topics that could cause disagreements such as politics.  Look her in the eye both when you are speaking and also when she is speaking in order to appear interested in what she has to say. 

Listen carefully.

The more you learn about her, the better the chance of sexual intimacy between the two of you.  Listen to what she has to say such as what types of things she likes and dislikes, what turns her on, etc.  This is an easy way to figure out what brings her the greatest pleasure in life.  These will come in very handy down the road.

Beyond boring.

Scrap the dinner and movie type of date and show her that you are truly different and exciting.  Rent an exotic car and go for a drive, have a picnic, take her rock climbing or anything else that you think she would enjoy and probably has never done before.  For dates of the exotic nature, be sure that she dresses appropriately.  There is no better way to kill your chances then to have an uncomfortable date because she didn’t dress for the activity. 

If all goes according to plan, she will have had an unbelievable time and simply won’t want the night to end.  Congratulations, she definitely wants in your bed!

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