That is the goal right?  It might not be goal for date number one or even date number ten for that matter, but at some point you will want to get her into bed.  Unfortunately, there is no quick and easy trick that will work on every woman in every situation; rather there are some simple guidelines that you can follow that will help you in your quest.  Even just broaching the subject can be a mind blowing endeavor but with a mix of careful words and actions she can be in your bed in no time.

Seduction is an art much like painting or sculpting.  In most cases, you only get one shot so it’s very important not to blow it.  One bad experience is enough for a woman to permanently lose your number, but with a little bit of preparation and a little bit of confidence you will be on your way to putting her under your spell.

In bloom.

Get things started right away with a small gift.  No need to go crazy with a monster bouquet of flowers.  Instead, just single red rose will get her warmed up.  Really want to go all out?  Include a card that you have written with some sort of ‘sweet nothing’ that will get her motor running immediately. 

Bottoms up.

All women love a tasty drink, and the right drink can not only act as an aphrodisiac but will help loosen her up a bit in the process.  Please keep in mind that this doesn’t mean to feed her drinks until she is completely drunk.  A nice glass of wine or even a flute of dry champagne is a great way to set the mood at the beginning of the night.

Yuck it up.

While the two of you are sipping drinks, begin to explore her…. mind.  Before a woman is going to jump into your bed, she is going to want to know a little bit about you and in the process will tell you plenty about herself.  Building a little bit of comfort and trust through engaging conversation is extremely important.  The key here is to avoid silence and awkward conversation.  Stay away from topics that could cause disagreements such as politics.  Look her in the eye both when you are speaking and also when she is speaking in order to appear interested in what she has to say. 

Listen carefully.

The more you learn about her, the better the chance of sexual intimacy between the two of you.  Listen to what she has to say such as what types of things she likes and dislikes, what turns her on, etc.  This is an easy way to figure out what brings her the greatest pleasure in life.  These will come in very handy down the road.

Beyond boring.

Scrap the dinner and movie type of date and show her that you are truly different and exciting.  Rent an exotic car and go for a drive, have a picnic, take her rock climbing or anything else that you think she would enjoy and probably has never done before.  For dates of the exotic nature, be sure that she dresses appropriately.  There is no better way to kill your chances then to have an uncomfortable date because she didn’t dress for the activity. 

If all goes according to plan, she will have had an unbelievable time and simply won’t want the night to end.  Congratulations, she definitely wants in your bed!

Ok guys, you have less then two weeks before the big day.  What day?  How about Valentines Day, February 14th, the day you celebrate your love for each other.  Fake holiday or not, women consider it to be a very big deal which means that there is mounting pressure on you to make the day absolutely perfect.  We have compiled a list ways to help you impress your loved one on Valentines Day.

Mark your calendar.  I know it sounds simple, but forgetting the day can and does happen.  You get caught up with the hustle and bustle of everyday life and next thing you know its February 14th and you are totally unprepared.  In case you don’t know it already, forgetting Valentines day is absolutely unacceptable!

Make a plan.  Start planning out the day or night long before the big day.  Restaurants and hotels are booked for Valentines Day sometimes months or even years in advance, so don’t wait until the last minute.  Never expect to get into a restaurant on Valentines Day without a reservation.

Buy something special.  Stay away from generic gifts that are totally meaningless.  While it doesn’t have to be expensive, this is not a day to be cheap.  Here is where you need to really sit down and think about her.  Has she hinted about something she wants?  Does she collect anything?  The gift you give her will show how well you know her and quite possible how much you care about her, so be sure to really think this one out. 

Head on out.  Avoid going out to the same boring places as usual.  It’s time to be adventurous.  Go online and look up a nice restaurant that the two of you have never tried, even if it requires a little bit of a drive to get there.  Check out the menu to make sure that they serve food that your significant other enjoys.  Surprise her!  Don’t tell her where you are going.  All she really needs to know is what time to be ready and how she should dress.  A little mystery little spice up the night.

Power down.  This is her night, so its no time to be taking business or personal phone calls.  At the very least, put your phone or pda on silent and check it once or twice while in the bathroom. 

After party.  So the night has gone well and the two of you are set for a little alone time. Its especially important to remember that its still her day.  Even in bed you should cater to her wants and desires.

So there you have few ideas to get you started.  Don’t worry, it’s only one day per year.

February 14th brings 14 great reasons to be single!

1. You can eat pizza, drink beer, and play video games with your buddies.

2. Don’t have to spend a week’s worth of pay on roses, candy, and a romantic dinner. Seriously, save yourself a few hundred dollars.

3. Don’t have to write a poem, or even buy a card.

4. You don’t have to worry about where you’ll be sleeping.

5. You can eat pizza, drink beer, and play video games with your buddies.

6. Romance isn’t about any particular day.

6. Valentine’s Day is far from spontaneous.

7. You may have a better shot at hooking up with the girl you’ve been checking out lately (if she’s single of course). Many women hate being single on Valentine’s Day, because they see their friends with roses and candy. The following day, they have to listen to all of the romantic story telling. Take advantage and cheer up the woman you’d like to be with. She might feel lonely. Something simple, like a card, will set her mind on you.

8. You can eat pizza, drink beer, and play video games with your buddies.

9. You know the thing women just love to do? Nag. Ya, you won’t have to deal with any of it.

10. You don’t have to shave.

11. Heh, you don’t even have to shower (just don’t tell your co-workers/friends).

12. While other men are spending the previous day planning, and setting up shop, in hopes of pleasing their women, you’re doing the same thing you’re going to be doing on Valentine’s Day; eating pizza, drinking beer, and playing video games with your buddies!

13. After all that pizza and beer, you’re going to be passed out anyway.

14. You get to spend more time on TrendSpike.com!

What other reasons can you come up with? What are your plans for Valentine’s Day? Unfortunately, I’ll be at work all day. I’ve got something special planned for the girl in my life, this morning though. In fact, it’s now 2:30 a.m., and she’s sleeping. Going to go get everything ready! Still need to buy a card though…..and women say we men procrastinate, ha.

So you think you’re a stud, eh? Believe it or not, you’re put to the test before your clothes even come off! Hopefully you know how to undress a woman. Start off on the right foot and undress your partner (and yourself) the way she would imagine it. Here are some basic rules to remember when taking off your clothes before sex:

Keep the Pace – What’s the mood like? Are you getting ready for a quickie, or are you romancing her? Obviously if you’re trying to show her how gentle you can be, tearing off (and breaking) the new bra she just bought probably wasn’t what she had in mind…..and it might cost you $50 too.

SSSPB – Ok, so that doesn’t actually make a word, and it probably won’t serve it’s purpose (helping to remember the order). Shoes, shirt, socks, pants, boxers/briefs. Yup, that’s the order in which you should be taking your clothes off. It may seem silly, until you think about how ridiculous you might look when undressing out of order. Would you want to be caught dead with nothing but socks on? Even worse…just a shirt. Your woman in a t-shirt and panties…sexy. You and your hairy a** legs peeking out from under a nice collared shirt…disturbing. Now that you have that nice visual, I’m sure you get the point.

Foreplay to your Advantage – If done right, taking off her clothes will already have her begging for more. Remember, she watches those chick flicks with the passionate love scenes, and she loves them. You might want to start watching them with her………just a thought.

Effective & Efficient – Learn how to unhook bras with ease. Even better if you can do it with one hand. When undressing her, be sure to focus on her body, not her clothes. Caress her legs while you slide her skirt off, and kiss on her neck while you take off her shirt.

Play the Part, Don’t Act – If you aren’t good at doing something, don’t try it in the heat of the moment. Trying to unhook her bra with one hand, and not succeeding will only work against you. If you’re not confident in taking off her bra, just continue to love on her, and eventually she’ll do it. If you prefer not taking off any of her clothes, then don’t act on it at all. If she’s feeling you, it won’t be long before she gets out of her clothes…..with or without your help.

Remain Cool – That one damn button on her shirt just won’t budge! Not a big deal. You can buy yourself more time through kissing and caressing. Just remember focus on her, not the button. If you’re not worried about the button, neither is she. If it absolutely won’t come undone, ask her for help, and lightly laugh it off.