First impressions are lasting impressions, so make your first impression count. When you meet a hot looking chick, do you want to be her best friend or do you want to be her lover? How you act and communicate with her will probably determine what kind, or if any relationship will grow from there.

In the first few minutes of meeting you she will determine if you have any potential as a person, friend or perhaps a lover. We all subconsciously categorize people new people we meet, and the chances are good that she placed you in a category in the first few minutes of meeting. She will then subconsciously treat you according to your potential and the category you got placed in; of course you can be shifted from one category to another during your relationship, but it is very unlikely. With that being said, don’t build a long term friendship only to “hope” that one day you will get lucky. You will realize that you are forever placed in her “friends” category. Being friends is not a bad thing, but secretly loving your friend really sucks so you want to try to avoid being just a friend.

Romantic films and teenage “chickflics” always show the lonely friend or nerdy neighbor ending up with the girl. The reality is that being the “sweet friend” and the “best friend” she always wanted places you in a different category and you will be loved and treated as a good friend. If you want to be more than best friends with a girl, don’t act like a friend.

Flirting is an important part of letting a girl know that you are attracted to her and want to be more than just friends. To pull it off, you have to be comfortable with flirting and be yourself. Some guys just haven’t practiced enough and are not comfortable with flirting or and get nervous when trying to flirt with a girl. If you want to get women to give you their phone numbers or to want to date you, you’ve got to relax. With enough practice, you should be able to flirt naturally with women.

Learning all the right moves and right words to say is part of flirting, but your mindset is the most important part of flirting. You need to approach women with self-confidence and see yourself as someone who has something to offer women.

So, how do you become a flirt master?

Flirting Tip #1 – You are a prize catch!

You need to believe that you have a lot to offer women, that you are a good catch. If you have self-confidence, flirting becomes a lot easier. Start conversations with her and let her do some of the flirting.

Flirting Tip #2 – Body language

A lot of what we communicate to women is through non-verbal communication or body language. Your body language needs to convey that you are a self-confident man with a lot to offer women and that you are comfortable in social situations. Women will automatically be attracted to men who feel that they have something of value to offer women and who are self-confident.

Flirting Tip #3 – Be Fun

Be fun to be around. Conversations should not sound like a job interview. They should be fund and enjoyable. Talk about things that interest you. Women are much more attracted to men when that they are having fun with and who make them laugh.

Flirting Tip #4 – Use Humor

When you’re chatting with a girl that you are interested in, tease her and make her laugh! That makes you more comfortable and familiar to be around and avoids awkward, boring conversations that most guys try when trying to get to know a girl.

The next time you find a girl you’d like to get to know better, use some of these flirting tips. A little bit of practice and you’ll find that girls are naturally attracted to self-confident, interesting, fun guys and being one will make picking up chicks that much easier.

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