You can’t always judge a book by it’s cover. Some chicks are drop dead gorgeous, smart, and seem really cool on the surface, but once you really get to know them better … they’re just plain crazy!

Unfortunately, it’s often later in the relationship that most guys figure this out. You may think well, no one is perfect … right or she has a lot of great qualities, but … If you’re wondering what you’ve gotten yourself into, you may have fallen for one of the four types of chicks that you should probably stay away from.

The Clingy Chick

The name says it all. You know the type … they have to be with you or in contact with you constantly or they lose it. You drop her off and she’s bombarding your phone with text or voice messages. She wants to be with you every waking moment, and you’re beginning to find it difficult to breath.

If you’re involved with a “Clingy Chick”, you have to set the boundaries. Explain to her that you enjoy the time you spend together, but you have other obligations, such as work and friends. Don’t make promises that you don’t intend to keep, like promising to call her or see her at a specific time. Encourage her to spend time with her own interests and friends as well. If she can’t or won’t give you the space you need, drop her.

The Jealous Girl

You know the type … she’s been cheated on and now she doesn’t trust guys and you’ll end up paying for the ex’s sins. She’s going to assume that since the ex cheated on her, you will too. She’s clingy and she sees red if there’s even the hint of any other females in your life, whether they be friends or co-workers. Things can get really ugly when she starts checking your voice messages and emails.

If you want to try to make a go of it with a girl like this, you’ll need to have a heart-to-heart with her. Let her know that it makes you feel badly that she doesn’t trust you and that you don’t see how the relationship can go anywhere if she can’t get past her insecurities.
You’ll need to make it clear that you’ll always have female friends or co-workers in your life, but that she’s the one you’re interested in romantically. Once you’ve discussed this with her, it’s up to her. If she can’t learn to trust you, it’s probably best to move on.

Your Future Wife

This girl reads too many romance novels. She hears wedding bells from the moment she meets you. You want to take things at a much slower pace.

Real love takes months and sometimes years to develop. This girl is a dreamer, but if you want to see if the relationship will work out, you’ll have to tell her that you want the same things she wants, but you take things at a much slower pace. Don’t make any promises or set a wedding date. If she doesn’t accept this, it’s probably best to let her go.

The Real Crazies

The real crazies are the ones who are obsessed with you. They stalk you or your female friends, park outside your house late at night to see what you’re doing, cry at the drop of a hat. In other words, they’re two steps away from a restraining order.

Relationships with an unbalanced women is like a relationship with a ticking bomb and you’re the bomb squad. In all honesty, it’s best to end the relationship with this type of girl, but that may be easier said than done. You might find that even a restraining order won’t work with a mentally unbalanced girl.

Final Thoughts

Since both men and women are on their best behavior when they first meet someone they are attracted to, you may not know that you’re involved with a girl who fits into one of the categories above until further into the relationship. You’ll have to decide whether or not to continue the relationship. If the tips in this article don’t improve the situation, it’s probably better to call it quits and move on to a more fulfilling relationship.

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